Christmas Tree (Kanya) Flower Essence

Nuytsia floribunda

This essence helps settle the person, bringing inner contentment that enhances the enjoyment of the family or group. The person can then fulfill their responsibilities and reap the rewards of consistency and shared goals.  For issues of responsibility in family and group life where duties and everyday pressure is causing an individual to become distant and avoid their share of the load.  This affects the whole group as they must carry the extra burden, and problems of resentment soon arise.  Selflessness is a cherished development in our spiritual life.  When we stop consciously fueling our selfish desires new pathways to happiness open up, and our environment and the people in it reflect joy.  For those only focused on their own desires and who become uncaring.  For a family member who is suddenly feeling trapped by the realities of their life.  Like in the case of a couple with young children, especially the first child.  The person is enjoying being in a family, but would like to have their cake and eat it too.  They wish to have the joy and comfort of home life and the freedom of single life.  The reality is that you can do that as long as you keep baking more cakes—you have to put more effort in to make sure that no one is suffering by you pursuing some private goal.  Usually these times of panic are phases of a maturing process and the individual learns to integrate the different aspects of their real needs responsibly into their life.